This week’s readings were very interesting, although I was puzzled by the privacy theme. It seems to me like the theme was more how social media are changing interpersonal communication and thus, relationships. While the Boyd article did discuss privacy issues on Facebook, I thought the major implications were how the newsfeeds were impacting how we view, form, or maintain friendships.
The articles discussed a few major points worth pointing out. The first is that social media seem to be quantifying friendship. Now, as Boyd says, people think of their relationships in terms of quantity. How many “Friends” do I have? How many comments are on my wall? How many “likes” do I get on a status or photo upload? Popularity is now a clearly viewable and measurable construct. I remember high school days well, and I can’t imagine how much this idea must complicate the delicate social system that reigns there.
Also, it almost seems like this system of quantification is extending the popularity contest that is high school to the adult world. As Boyd said “Facebook made what was previously obscure difficult to miss (and even harder to forget)” (p. 16). Now people have to anticipate the reactions of others before they “speak” on social networking sites. Marwick and boyd (2010) discuss how ordinary people are using the strategies of the micro-celebrity to brand themselves on Twitter. People tailor the content of Tweets to appeal to their imagined audiences. It seems as if we are coming to the age when we construct our personalities and our image primarily through social networking sites. Are we nothing more than products to that need marketing strategies to be sold?
Lastly, does social media cheapen friendship? The concept of invasion, as explored by boyd (2008) is the idea that although we can only handle so much social information, Facebook assumes that we can keep track of an endless number of people. The result is that “when data are there, people want to pay attention, even if it doesn’t help them” (p. 16). This works in creating pseudo friendships where people form parasocial relationships with ordinary individuals. Where parasocial relationships used to exist only between ordinary people and celebrities, we are now seeing parasocial relationships existing between the computer nerd and the prom queen from high school days. The computer nerd can come to “know” and be “Friends” with the prom queen, when the prom queen doesn’t know anything about the computer nerd.